Don’t Judge Me…You’re Raising Another Dude’s Kid Too!

I was traveling with my Pops the other night to pick up my oldest son from college. Traffic was super crazy, so I had time to get some work done! While I was scheduling my posts, Pops and I got into a “real” discussion about “cohabitational” fatherhood. As we were talking I realized that “cohabitational”... Continue Reading →

I Almost Went to Prison…for being a Dad!

               It's finally here! Ain't Nobody Coming is a must read for fathers, and prenuptial parents who seek an honest reflection of the demanding realities of blended parenthood. My G, I'm not a violent dude. As a matter of fact, I stay clear of sucka n!gg@s, just so I don't get... Continue Reading →

5 Signs she still loves “Baby Daddy!”

  If you are one of those dudes that believe every thing your lady tells you, this post might f@%k your life up! So, only read this joint if you have the balls to accept, and deal with some real ish in your relationship. My OG's taught me that the #1 Rule as a man... Continue Reading →

I See You…But It’s OK Now!

DADS...if you're dealing with baby momz craziness, remember that there is only so much time you have with your kids. Don't allow ANYONE, including your kid's momz to hinder your relationship with YOUR kids. I know it maybe difficult because it seems like no one understands your pain as a man, and that's mostly the... Continue Reading →

It Does Get Better…Trust Me!

It can be difficult as a PreNup Pops to see your lady deal with baby daddy craziness. To keep it one hun'ed I'm still not Gucci with my lady 'fussin'" with any of her kid's dads. I know ish comes up from time to time, but after a couple of years of co-parenting I can't... Continue Reading →

Did I Go too Far?!

My oldest step seedlings has been having some issues with bullying at school. When I was first notified of the issue I was upset, but I didn't want my fiance to go "overboard" with her emotions. You know how black momz can be when it comes to someone messing with their kids. So in my... Continue Reading →

What’s Up With It?!…Why you still Hatin’ on Baby-Daddy?!

My fiance notified me that she needed to talk to one of her kid's fathers about an important matter. I said OK and continued doing what I was doing. Moments later I asked her how she thought the "conversation" was going to go over? She shared her concerns, I didn't reply and continued with what... Continue Reading →

Why Protect No Respect?

What does your woman, girlfriend, chic, baby momz, shorty  really expect from you? It's an important question to ask yourself as a PreNup Pops. If you can't truthfully and accurately answer that question you done "F'd" up! You are loosing critical ground in your relationship, and setting yourself up for future frustration. No woman is in... Continue Reading →

When Boundaries become Barriers…

Often times I feel the need to protect my blended family from outside circumstances that are not always a threat. However, after 21 years of parenting and 17 years in a previous marriage, it's hard to break old habits. I've always felt it was my job, and duty to ensure that the health of my... Continue Reading →

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