Bruh…you Wife’d the Side Chic?!

I don't really have any clever intros for the topic of this blog. It sort of speaks for itself. I know a lot of my Homies want to ask me the "infamous" question, but don't want to insult nor disrespect me if in fact I really love my lady. The craziness is that at some...

A Good Man!

I woke up feeling solemn this morning. I didn't know how many kids from my previous marriage I would hear from today. I'm not on the best terms with any of my adult kids, and my middle daughter doesn't speak to me at all. It's tough because I've always attempted to separate my issues with...

I See You…But It’s OK Now!

DADS...if you're dealing with baby momz craziness, remember that there is only so much time you have with your kids. Don't allow ANYONE, including your kid's momz to hinder your relationship with YOUR kids. I know it maybe difficult because it seems like no one understands your pain as a man, and that's mostly the...

It Does Get Better…Trust Me!

It can be difficult as a PreNup Pops to see your lady deal with baby daddy craziness. To keep it one hun'ed I'm still not Gucci with my lady 'fussin'" with any of her kid's dads. I know ish comes up from time to time, but after a couple of years of co-parenting I can't...

Dad!…you gotta love yourself first!

Loving yourself is a critical aspect to self care. Too many times we as men don't take the time to care for ourselves. We love to appear invincible, and never like to admit that we get depleted too! My G, we have to be real about our longevity as men and fathers as well. There...

Did I Go too Far?!

My oldest step seedlings has been having some issues with bullying at school. When I was first notified of the issue I was upset, but I didn't want my fiance to go "overboard" with her emotions. You know how black momz can be when it comes to someone messing with their kids. So in my...

Does “Shackin” Up Hurt Blended Families?

Let me first off say that I don't ascribe to any cohabitational living as "shackin' up." I do have to admit that in my former days of ministry I did my share of condemning people who lived together as a couple without being married. So it's fitting that I am currently living with my fiance...

Toxic Communication

I'm sure every family has dealt with poor communication issues. When you're in a blended family communication habits from past relationships can severely hinder the blending process. Moreover having arguments as a cohabitation couple can be quite treacherous. You kinda don't know how far is too far until well, you've gone too far! When you're...

Sometimes You Gotta “Fall Back!”

Man listen, I just need you to feel me on this right here! Have you ever felt exhausted as a PreNup Pops? I'm talking about that drained feeling even after a full night of sleep.  Lately my fiance and I have been going at it so much that I literally feel physically drained. I'm a pretty...

What’s Up With It?!…Why you still Hatin’ on Baby-Daddy?!

My fiance notified me that she needed to talk to one of her kid's fathers about an important matter. I said OK and continued doing what I was doing. Moments later I asked her how she thought the "conversation" was going to go over? She shared her concerns, I didn't reply and continued with what...